Living Angels

Dear family:

This morning, as I walked along the canal bank after a night of sporadic and fitful sleep, struggling with my personal weaknesses, I was inspired by the words of two wonderful apostles, literal messengers from God, who spoke peace to my troubled heart.

I encourage each of you to re-read or listen again to the talks Elders Joseph Wirthlin and Jeffrey Holland gave in October general conference.

Using tender and often humorous accounts from his own life, Elder Wirthlin encouraged us to love the challenges we face in life:

"Although my mother has long since passed to her eternal reward, her words are always with me. I still remember her advice to me given on that day long ago when my team lost a football game: 'Come what may, and love it.'"

He recommended four specific ways we can learn to love our circumstances, however difficult they may be:

As we look for humor, seek for the eternal perspective, understand the principle of compensation, and draw near to our Heavenly Father, we can endure hardship and trial. We can say, as did my mother, “Come what may, and love it.”

Elder Holland began his talk by saying, with great emotion,

"Within the ranks of the general authorities of the church, there is no man more beloved than Joseph Bitner Wirthlin. We praise him for living the sermons that he preaches."

(note: this was included in the audio recording, but not in the text manuscript)

Elder Holland then went on to eloquently speak of angels, messengers from God, who have comforted, taught and warned people on earth throughout the history of the world.

"My beloved brothers and sisters, I testify of angels, both the heavenly and the mortal kind. In doing so I am testifying that God never leaves us alone, never leaves us unaided in the challenges that we face. ...

"On occasions, global or personal, we may feel we are distanced from God, shut out from heaven, lost, alone in dark and dreary places. Often enough that distress can be of our own making, but even then the Father of us all is watching and assisting. And always there are those angels who come and go all around us, seen and unseen, known and unknown, mortal and immortal."

Then, Elder Holland challenged each of us:

"In the process of praying for those angels to attend us, may we all try to be a little more angelic ourselves—with a kind word, a strong arm, a declaration of faith and 'the covenant wherewith [we] have covenanted.^' Perhaps then we can be emissaries sent from God when someone, perhaps a Primary child, is crying, "Darkness . . . afraid . . . river . . . alone.'"

This morning, I again felt the Comforter come and bring peace, because I was privileged to walk with two angelic messengers from God. Thank you, angels Joseph and Jeffrey, for your inspired counsel.

Love,

Dad/Mark

Concern for the One

President Wirthlin's talk in April General Conference was entitled "Concern for the One." He highlighted President Monson as a shining example of this Christlike focus on individuals.

"I have known President Monson for a long time. He is a mighty man of Israel who was foreordained to preside over this Church. He is well known for his captivating stories and parables, but we who know him best understand that his life is a practical and exemplary model of the application of those stories. While it is a compliment to him that many of the great and mighty of this world know and honor him, perhaps it is an even greater tribute that many of the lowly call him friend.

"To his core, President Monson is kind and compassionate. His words and deeds exemplify his concern for the one."

Elder Joseph B. Wirthlin, Quorum of the Twelve Apostles, "Concern for the One," April 2008 General Conference, Saturday Morning Session.

I pray that each of us might follow the examples of President Monson and our own perfect example, Mama Clodhopper, and have concern for individual people with whom we interact. That concern for the one will bring unity and happiness to us all.

Love,

Dad/Mark

Our Family is an Orchestra

One of the biggest surprises of fatherhood to me was to realize how different each member of our family is. Each of us came to earth with unique and wonderful personalities.

Elder Wirthlin's talk from April General Conference reminded me of this when he spoke of:

"... the erroneous belief that all members of the Church should look, talk, and be alike. The Lord did not people the earth with a vibrant orchestra of personalities only to value the piccolos of the world. Every instrument is precious and adds to the complex beauty of the symphony. All of Heavenly Father’s children are different in some degree, yet each has his own beautiful sound that adds depth and richness to the whole.

Elder Joseph B. Wirthlin, Concern for the One, April 2008 General Conference, Saturday morning session.

What a great analogy! I like to think of our family as an orchestra, each unique and special, everyone contributing immeasurably to the beauty of the whole.

Love,

Dad/Mark